Janet Pearlman

Living in the Stream of Yes

June 15, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Success with Intention

We know that we can marshal our power to fulfill our wishes. How to do it? Get clear what we want, work inside till we feel as happy as we will when we have it, relax and let the universe provide. Since we are already feeling good, the time required becomes less important because we already feel good! Review this example. Continue reading

June 8, 2021
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Growing Self Respect

As we walk a path of growth, we become more attuned to noticing our reactions. The power in noticing can be milked for greater insight. In the example below we read the guidance delivered to someone who feels hurt and discouraged from an exchange at her job. Please see if what’s offered provides a useful template for your own journey of unfolding. We will review the story from Ruby and the counseling she received. Continue reading

June 1, 2021
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Go for Loving

For many of us in our culture family relationships easily bring up guilt and shame. For some just mentioning family means obligations and we start to squirm. Those thoughts of “what I should do” or “what I should have done” or “what he or she should have done for me” trigger such discomfort! Do we withdraw? Do we placate? attack? Some of each? What might be possible if we brought new understanding to handle such situations?
Filled with grace, we can learn to uplift ourselves to love before reacting.
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May 19, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Tips on Forgiving Ourselves

Many of us feel guilt and shame and at times judge our actions. Wow what an uncomfortable feeling! That inner voice of condemnation can sound so true!
Let’s review some methods for soothing ourselves when that is happening. Over time we can grow to skipping the judgment altogether. In this post we can take a look at some key recommendations provided in the book Radical Forgiveness[1] by Colin Topping. Continue reading

May 10, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Robust Flow from Unwanted

It is a strong cultural habit of thought to complain when some event occurs that we very much do not want: serious injury, death of a loved one, a job that does not come through and more. That habit might include, “Poor Me!”
Readers of this blog reach to replace that habit with clearer thinking and with positive attitude. Such events offer us opportunity. As Darren Weissman, author of The Power of Infinite Love and Gratitude, calls it, “Gifts in Strange Wrappings.”
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May 4, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Ease from Self Blame

We want to follow the teachings—think as positively as possible. Oh my! Some situations can feel overwhelming, so many factors, we are trying so hard. We may know we are not thinking positively—in fact, we can notice things showing up that we don’t want—oh my what to do? Continue reading

April 5, 2021
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Good Flows Better Than Imagined

We are on the path to seeing increasing Good, our perceptive lens clearing out smallness, self-deprecating, and limiting habits of thought. What can flow to us in a light-hearted and loving state might be beyond what we might imagine. Read on for an example. Continue reading

March 29, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Facing Fear

We may suspect that great reward can come from facing our fears. This post offers an entertaining bit of evidence.
Are you becoming more aware of when you feel that grip of tension and your spirits dip? Let’s see how “worth it” it is to observe ourselves in everyday living, change our thinking and create a satisfying life. Continue reading

March 1, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Kind, Generous and Balanced

We want to be kind to others, value friends and care about them. Do we put others first even if we get exhausted? Now we want to offer generosity and kindness while balanced in self-expression and excellent self-care. How can Forces of Good offer clarity about this piece of relating? Continue reading

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