Janet Pearlman

Living in the Stream of Yes

October 1, 2020
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Accepting Our Stuff and Becoming New

We all want to get relief from past hurts. Don’t we love it when we can behave in the present in fresh thinking and feeling good!

Sometimes an opportunity for healing shows up as an incident which kicks up negative emotions.

For starters, let’s accept that we sometimes feel upset. We might bury this, pushing it away, telling stories over it while not feeling it. It has been known to happen 😊.

Instead, we can bring focus to our discomfort and mindfully turn things around. Let’s see if this example provides some useful tools where new results are possible. Continue reading

September 27, 2020
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Commitment to Courage

We all gain value from stories of courage. Isn’t it enlightening to learn what steps are taken inside them to live that ideal? This account delivers some insight:

Lizette enjoys pulling an oracle card or two each morning. She’s selected decks that spoke to her and L relaxes knowing the thoughts for the day will be inspiring and constructive. Continue reading

September 17, 2020
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Creating the World I Want to Inhabit Part II 

Isn’t it great that with being focused at home some of us have more time to become aware of ourselves and to accept ourselves with more openness, less judgment?

We notice, “O, Look I am doing that again. Is that putting forth the atmosphere of the world I want to live in? Uh, not really, I want to shift.” Some may realize that we are more tense and less balanced than we prefer, with the world changing, more time alone than we have had in our lives, less contact with friends. Continue reading

September 16, 2020
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Creating the World We Want to Inhabit Part I

When we experience what we do not want, we get much clearer about what we DO want. If we are afraid, we can easily put out words and behaviors that are not mindful of the effect on others.  We can easily spread fear and promote folks becoming more isolated from one another. Let’s use unwanted to move ourselves forward more constructively. Let’s  find our own balance and from there put out calm, kindness and good will.  Below one story that inspired greater mindfulness. Continue reading

August 31, 2020
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Healing and Empowered Speech

We promote the healing of a bodily condition even in how we describe it to ourselves. Our words matter much to us! We gain benefit from formulating what we observe in an empowered way.
For example, we may have heard ourselves say:

That elbow always acts up when it rains. Continue reading

August 25, 2020
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A Story of Soothing Self

Many of us have experienced much judgment on our life’s paths. The habit of judging one another is so prevalent in the culture. Many parents want others to see their children as well performing and well behaved and if the children are not, they take the judgment thoughts as condemnation of their being as well as their child’s.  Work cultures, societal cultures, the examples abound. Continue reading

August 17, 2020
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Brainstorm What You Love

We can offer ourselves a rampage of joy. Who knew? Starting the roll we inquire, “What do I love and Why do I love it?” We can have a blast playing with this process.

Each of us can select a topic about which we have enthusiasm. Some folks have grandchildren—when they get sharing stories of the visits and the antics they light up like a Christmas Tree. Continue reading

August 10, 2020
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Two Aspects of Our Power

In this post we read two stories that show us our power. In the first the momentum of our habit to think the best we can creates a flow that delivers our wishes easily and promptly. The second account demonstrates the awesome power we have in our self-talk—how we perceive ourselves matters hugely. Enjoy! Continue reading

August 3, 2020
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Allowing Self Appreciation

Have you noticed that at times you praise another person, appreciate what a great job he has done, and the dear man kind of keeps talking or makes light of your words—he does not seem to hear or enjoy it?

And have you become aware that at times you behave that way too? We all want validation and yet sometimes we cannot let in the praise. Continue reading

July 22, 2020
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Another Illustration of Waking Up

Many of us are eager to learn to wake up more and more to what we are doing with our thoughts. Let’s review this process—always worthwhile since changing habits of thought requires much patient review for our dear selves.  We know habits take a period of time to shift. 😊

Henrietta traveled the path of growing more and more. She was determined to get more power over her experience. H keyed into noticing her feelings more and more. “Hey what is going on with this dip I feel?”    Continue reading

(Mission statement here).