Janet Pearlman

Living in the Stream of Yes

August 25, 2020
by Janet Pearlman
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A Story of Soothing Self

Many of us have experienced much judgment on our life’s paths. The habit of judging one another is so prevalent in the culture. Many parents want others to see their children as well performing and well behaved and if the children are not, they take the judgment thoughts as condemnation of their being as well as their child’s.  Work cultures, societal cultures, the examples abound. Continue reading

August 17, 2020
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Brainstorm What You Love

We can offer ourselves a rampage of joy. Who knew? Starting the roll we inquire, “What do I love and Why do I love it?” We can have a blast playing with this process.

Each of us can select a topic about which we have enthusiasm. Some folks have grandchildren—when they get sharing stories of the visits and the antics they light up like a Christmas Tree. Continue reading

July 22, 2020
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Another Illustration of Waking Up

Many of us are eager to learn to wake up more and more to what we are doing with our thoughts. Let’s review this process—always worthwhile since changing habits of thought requires much patient review for our dear selves.  We know habits take a period of time to shift. 😊

Henrietta traveled the path of growing more and more. She was determined to get more power over her experience. H keyed into noticing her feelings more and more. “Hey what is going on with this dip I feel?”    Continue reading

July 14, 2020
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Something Fun

How do we keep ourselves in a good mood? Chilling out and focusing on something fun. Let’s also pull up the outstanding “coincidences” that pop for us and fill us with delight.

True, at times we feel the effects of unwanted events. Why don’t we keep really juicy stories in a special file to remind us of what’s possible? Here’s one worth sharing:  Continue reading

July 8, 2020
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Change YOUR Thought

We might not like the behavior of another person. How could that happen? 😊 We might strategize how to convince him to change. Often this approach is not effective. Who likes to be on the receiving end of that kind of discussion? Let’s consider how to make a change in ourselves that brings some relief.

Aubrey loves to feel affection expressed to her with physical contact. She admits she appreciates that reassurance and her own physical expression. Continue reading

June 30, 2020
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Find More Fun Shifting Our Perception

We invent what we see! Isn’t it good to notice that we can create more fun – even with frustrating circumstances! When we feel lousy viewing some situation or person, let’s recall that we have the power to change how we see that and then shift how we feel. That way we feel good a lot more often and enjoy life more!

Juice of Satisfaction flowed in the following two examples. Find Inspiration! Continue reading

May 28, 2020
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From Self Blame to Self-Compassion

How do you activate compassion for yourself? How do you find it and allow it to flow more and more? Where to begin? This author will offer periodic posts on self-compassion providing guidance with true stories featuring a growing soul who acts more deeply in compassion for self.  Today, read on: two examples follow.

The Self-Blame Tirade

Sometimes we can call ourselves derogatory names in our head. Continue reading

May 7, 2020
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Shift and Enjoy What is Wanted

Welcome Readers! These posts provide illustrations of how we can use our awareness, our thought and emotion, to create new more satisfying experiences.

Yes we have the power to change habits of thought, hereby feeling lighter and more free. As we shift, we attract more of what we want, sometimes sooner rather than later.  Below read about one example to see how it can work. Continue reading

April 21, 2020
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Self-Supporting Habits of Thought

Those of us using the information in these posts are learning to become more and more awake to what we are thinking and to how that feels. We love when we feel good.

This process involves become more aware and in that we sometimes notice we want a course correction. “Oh my, I am blaming myself again, or Oh dear, I am finding fault with someone outside myself. “

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April 2, 2020
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Clearer Perception with Calm

Cloretta has been meeting prospect partners using the internet. Recently she explored a dating site that she rarely checked: that one sent her notice of a new member whom C checked out. That company required payment to send a custom … Continue reading

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