May 19, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Many of us feel guilt and shame and at times judge our actions. Wow what an uncomfortable feeling! That inner voice of condemnation can sound so true!
Let’s review some methods for soothing ourselves when that is happening. Over time we can grow to skipping the judgment altogether. In this post we can take a look at some key recommendations provided in the book Radical Forgiveness[1] by Colin Topping. Continue reading
May 10, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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It is a strong cultural habit of thought to complain when some event occurs that we very much do not want: serious injury, death of a loved one, a job that does not come through and more. That habit might include, “Poor Me!”
Readers of this blog reach to replace that habit with clearer thinking and with positive attitude. Such events offer us opportunity. As Darren Weissman, author of The Power of Infinite Love and Gratitude, calls it, “Gifts in Strange Wrappings.”
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May 4, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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We want to follow the teachings—think as positively as possible. Oh my! Some situations can feel overwhelming, so many factors, we are trying so hard. We may know we are not thinking positively—in fact, we can notice things showing up that we don’t want—oh my what to do? Continue reading
May 2, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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As we enjoy our life journey, some of us realize that we would prefer to have greater belief in our loving nature, our own abilities, greater confidence.
In fact, for some of us, when we listen to a “motivational speaker” telling us we can do anything, we can feel more depressed and have an impulse to shut off that person really quickly. The words “Get away from me” come to mind. Continue reading
April 23, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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We can follow the thinking with which we were raised – perhaps home or school or both—the way those in our culture around us think. How about this one? Ring a bell? “Someone messes with me I fight back. Push me, I push you back.”
Or we can choose another path. Continue reading
April 12, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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Wow we want to have more personal power! What is the formula? Sustain our focus on Good, allow our spirits to rise and watch as things we want appear.
Many of us have experienced employment situations where a supervisor treated us unfairly and suppressed our talents and recognition of them. We can feel like we have no power to shift the situation—or maybe moving to other employment is the only approach. That is an option. Continue reading
April 5, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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We are on the path to seeing increasing Good, our perceptive lens clearing out smallness, self-deprecating, and limiting habits of thought. What can flow to us in a light-hearted and loving state might be beyond what we might imagine. Read on for an example. Continue reading
March 29, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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We may suspect that great reward can come from facing our fears. This post offers an entertaining bit of evidence.
Are you becoming more aware of when you feel that grip of tension and your spirits dip? Let’s see how “worth it” it is to observe ourselves in everyday living, change our thinking and create a satisfying life. Continue reading
March 22, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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We can discover more and more ways to make life more fun. Don’t we all value help with the habit of judging ourselves? We eagerly see ourselves doing this less frequently and less harshly. If you have been judging yourself, wow is it ever more fun to learn an alternative! This author can attest to this! Continue reading
March 15, 2021
by Janet Pearlman
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We find ourselves in a position where we feel not so good. In the blog we read about reaching for thoughts that feel better. Sometimes we are answered in unexpected ways. The “reaching” can shows up as an impulse to use that “blah” energy, perhaps a creative impulse or some kind. Continue reading
(Mission statement here).