Janet Pearlman

Living in the Stream of Yes

New Pattern, 24 x 30, Acrylic with Texture on Canvas, SOLD

July 25, 2023
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More Acceptance Than We Might Think

Sometimes, others are displeased with us. Of course, we prefer those surrounding us, e.g. our parents or our bosses, to at least LIKE what we do (if not PRAISE us!). When we hear unhappy tones addressing us, we might feel the impulse to order “Shields up!” inside ourselves, and instead go toward some balance and openness.
And what a gift! A pay off from doing personal growth is that we do have access to new attitudes in times of stress, more neutral and clear insight. We enjoy more stamina in staying in a loving heart. Continue reading

July 11, 2023
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Claiming Self Love

We each have some quality that others may consider a “flaw.”   In those moments of showing it, others may judge it and see us as lesser.  Then what do we do? Some personality styles may feel ashamed, guilty and unworthy. (Others might attack to go on offensive to defend self.) In order to feel better, we will shift our thinking and with it relieve those awful feelings we associate with the trait. Continue reading

June 21, 2023
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Self-Judgment Part of Growth

We want to develop more and more inner strength. Yes, we look forward to more clarity, self-respect and self-support along with greater compassion for others.
Some may feel reluctant to delve into thought patterns that feel very uncomfortable—even upsetting. Oh My! For those of us raised in these times those thoughts can sound like a truth about ourselves.
But no! Becoming aware of these feelings of shame and self-judgment, so common in our culture, comprise an important aspect of the path to more growth.
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May 30, 2023
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Shifting the Atmosphere

We can feel so helpless in this world. So many things flowing by, so much activity. Yes, some people we have heard about are praying for protection, healing or grace. Can that actually change anything? Continue reading

May 16, 2023
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Our Process with Miracles

We can get what we want and be ourselves along with the way. Yes we reach for “expecting” and we slip into negativity for moments too. Still miracles show up. Continue reading

May 9, 2023
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Feel Good on the Way to Goals

On a path of growth, we will always notice something more we want. Go after it, yes, and enjoy life on the way. Let’s relax, feel good and be kind to ourselves. Some goals may take longer than others. Let’s read this exchange, cheering on persistence. Continue reading

May 1, 2023
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Recovery Process from Self Blame

Often and consistently, many of us want to think as positively as we can, especially about ourselves! Oh my, but my thoughts do regularly stray to self blame! Some situations can feel overwhelming and out dated patterns of self talk can start to run in our heads. As we progress on our path, we find more kindness to ourselves and more ease. Here is a story to inspire our forward movement. Continue reading

April 25, 2023
by Janet Pearlman
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Keep Going Even When Afraid

We have all felt afraid at times. Many know that experience “Frozen in Fear” or a cousin version “Daunted by Fear.” Let’s review a story where the protagonist felt strongly frightened and proceeded anyway, discovering her path to developing self-mastery bit by bit. Continue reading

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