June 11, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on Soothing Myself: What I Want to Remember
Last week I got quite upset by an interaction with a man whom I am dating. He was advocating for a step for which I was not ready, asking me for things I was not willing to offer. Many thoughts … Continue reading
June 2, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on How I learned about Ease from a Spider
About a week ago I spied an eight legged hairy creature , probably a wolf spider, in my apartment near the basement section. At that moment I had bare feet and ran for shoes, returned with a broom and … Continue reading
May 28, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on Influence We Can Have
Below please read about how used intense positive focusing in my mind to influence a situation. I used both Abraham Hicks and the worked called Ho’ponopono. Reposted here. The end of the year reminds me of my mother, Ethel Pearlman … Continue reading
May 22, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on Brain Event, Recovery and Appreciation
I find it striking when a highly trained scientist experiences events that go beyond what she had learned in her academic and research settings. Several years ago I read My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor. Jill, a neuroscientist, had a massive stroke … Continue reading
May 15, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on Kindness to Self and a Better You
Most of you reading this blog are involved in a process of becoming a better version of you. Influences that I use to grow tell me I am becoming “Who I Really Am”. Do you like that language for your … Continue reading
May 7, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on When I See the Positive, I Feel Good
This morning early on I went to my phone and punched in digits for dear friend Mariam. Years ago Mariam gifted me with a clump of irises from her garden that had originally come from her mom’s plot in Maryland. … Continue reading
May 1, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on Pleasing Yourself First– Take another Read
This piece was originally posted in May 2014. It holds some juicy thoughts for you still :). When I first drew the card “Codependency” from a Doreen Virtue oracle card deck, I thought there had been some mistake. How could … Continue reading
April 20, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on Accepting Self- Repost
This post was originally offered last year. Please enjoy! I feel a noticeable gain: a chunk of iceberg of Self Blame breaking off and melting into the ocean of Well Being. I learned this week that the practice I have … Continue reading
April 16, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on What We Tell Ourselves – reposted
Originally posted 3/28/14 this piece deserves another look. Please enjoy! Last week a friend told me about the unusual circumstance she experienced in traffic. A red light for a left turn appeared not to function– she took matters into her … Continue reading
April 11, 2015
by Janet Pearlman
Comments Off on On a Roll Appreciating
Last winter I had an appointment with a client who was running late. Inspired, I grabbed paper and pen and began brainstorming on what I am grateful for. After about twenty minutes I realized I might want to call the … Continue reading
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