When we analyze a situation deciding what action to take, we can face a myriad of factors many of which can be daunting. Oh my! how can we sanely sort through a complicated circumstance?

Track this: we want to think as positively as we can. How can we find balance when events feel overwhelming?

Wait, are we focusing on what we do NOT want and thereby creating more of that?  Let’s shift that pattern to dwell upon WHAT WE DO WANT thereby, becoming more effective!

Assistance for Tanya

Tanya received some money from her sister, invested it and lost a chunk of it. T blamed herself thinking, “I could have bought a lot with those funds that slipped away! I feel awful!”

This dear woman’s fear about money got stimulated and feelings of hurt came up about past financial projects that did not go well. T felt fear every morning.

So many of us can relate to the habitual response to repeat self-blaming patterns.

We want to change to affirmative cognition!  Our heroine sought help to regain her strength and her knowledge of abundance. For assistance she contacted an advisor.

Enter Wise Counsel

Wise Counsel spoke:

1. “It’s such good news that you want to clean up the thought pattern that finds fault in you and creates more of what you do not want. How wonderful that you catch yourself! Isn’t it great to be practicing positive thinking and building a trend to attract what you want.

• Let’s cultivate compassion for yourself. We know you are ok in this moment however you feel.

• On this human journey, our habitual thoughts require some considerable practice to shift. What a worthwhile undertaking!

• Appreciate whatever you can. Perhaps you can build in times of the day when you purposely pause to notice what is going well.

• Flow with what is easiest. And offer yourself plenty of rest in your day.

• What you are doing is enough!”

Outdated thought: “It is taking me so long!”

In addition, our heroine realized she was on a journey of changing deeply held habits of thought and that shifting these will take some focusing over time. This is what the growth looks like for everyone.

Outdated thought: “I should be giving more service to the world”

When we are feeling frisky, full of life, feeling good, flowing and creating—tuned in, tapped in, turned on—we are giving abundantly to this dear planet.

We are one with humanity and when we thrive, we contribute mightily.

Feeling Success

This protagonist felt great relief as she shifted her thinking. T tasted the ease that is possible. For additional help she received some Jin Shin Jyutsu allowing the release in body, mind and spirit. And she supports herself with the directive; “Keep Going!”

Please share your stories of lifting your own self talk. Do you have a question? Please ask it! Together we are creating a more satisfying journey!

About the Author

Janet Pearlman is a spiritual teacher, counselor, healer and artist. These posts demonstrate everyday applications of the path to greater self knowledge and mastery. Opportunities for greater empowerment abound in the moments of our lives. As we all go for operating from a centered and loving space, we are creating a world where peace can prevail. In her forty-six year journey of self-discovery, Janet has deeply studied the teachings of Abraham-Hicks, Ernest Holmes, Inayat Khan and more. Janet offers individual sessions by phone and in person. Please contact her at jpearl555@earthink.net to arrange an appointment.