In dating in the course of our contact I scan for qualities I want in the man. My mind generates questions:

Will I be able to “live with” his food plan patterns? Will I tolerate his hesitancy in certain areas annoy me? Today I realized– I can release reviewing this kind of concern. I want to focus on what I appreciate in the person. I enjoy making lists of the attributes I admire. As I do, I notice more and more of them.

Continuing to interact as I do so, I continue to reach for feeling good. I succeed: I enjoy myself. I flow along.

I can trust the communication and know that situations will show me aspects of myself as I have my reactions. I notice what I say and do. I note when I have slipped into using a filter from my past– some habit of thought from my family or last relationship. I grow as I see what I don’t want and get clearer about what I do want– from myself and another.

Today I saw that I need not analyze the person to prepare myself — I need not project what I will feel in some conjured future. I release scoping it out ahead of time to protect myself. I stay happy, I am connected, and I am given guidance as I live.

Only what matches us can come into our lives. What I can do is refine what I am thinking/feeling. I reach for feeling good. I practice a happy mood. I receive impulses and I act from this inspiration. It will be shown to me if I no longer match. I can trust life and keep appreciating the partner, opening to what feeling is there. At some point down the road, we may no longer match. I trust that will be to my advantage. Source Energy is offering me a match to how I am vibrating– and what I used to fear is not an issue. Because if I am aligned with Source then only Good comes to me. My goal is to enjoy my life, and that is all I have to do.

Wow! This is huge realization. Even as I write this, I know I need to practice following this advice again and again.

What is your reaction? Want to share some thoughts? Please write me at jpearl@streamofyes.com.  Let’s let Source handle as much as possible!