Janet Pearlman

Living in the Stream of Yes

January 17, 2024
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Frustration and Opportunity

We can recall instances when someone in our social spheres “drives us crazy.”  Inside us we call, “How can they keep saying that? They are ignoring my advice!”
If we choose, we can pursue the opportunity to explore our emotion and thought pattern that has gotten triggered. Perhaps we can soothe the frustration in ourselves. Isn’t it fun to contemplate the inner power we can liberate if we focus there! Continue reading

January 4, 2024
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Talking Ourselves Down from the Edge

We all acknowledge that we have moments of upset. Even those on the path of more empowerment experience times of unwanted habits of thoughts running, perhaps anger or fear. This piece shows the process of how to grab the reins of that bucking inner horse and return to an easy trot through life. Continue reading

December 20, 2023
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Calm Take Another Look

Do we notice when we are assessing a situation and we are also feeling “not good”? If we slow down, we may notice that we are feeling quite afraid, resentful, or other negative emotions.  Then we are wise to take another look now that we feel more balanced. The difference in view may be remarkable and pleasing! Continue reading

December 13, 2023
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Take Power Instead of Feeling a Victim

Those of us increasing our personal power are building new neural pathways moment to moment. These new pathways represent new strength in our ability to focus.
When we are born, we are guaranteed that choosing our focus will be part of our life experience –we will touch up against some things we do not want. Then we turn to focus on what we DO WANT so we get more of it.
We get what we hold in our thoughts in this attraction-based world. Continue reading

November 29, 2023
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Compassion and Self Care                

We want to protect our loved ones from hurt. If a dear one has borne a loss, we would love to “be there for them.” In some circumstances we can become overwhelmed with the effort to meet our own standard of kindness we set. As we feel exhaustion, we are tempted to become resentful. How do we stay empowered? Read on for an example of what to do… Continue reading

November 22, 2023
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Keep Going: Urgent Moments Can Resolve Easily.

Woven into the fabric of our living we will experience blips. It is guaranteed that we will experience what we do not prefer and then we realize what we DO prefer. Some events feel so urgent and yet as we persist, find some ease, resolution can come easily. Continue reading

November 15, 2023
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Observing Fear in Romance

Gosh we load so many emotions into a male/female “romantic” interaction. With sharpened awareness we can learn about ourselves and our fears, we notice how trepidations cloud our perceptive lens. Continue reading

November 8, 2023
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Choose Love Over Guilt

For many of us in this culture family relationships can easily trigger feelings of guilt and obligations. In this post we offer some new thoughts on family and new strategies that feel better. Let’s take a look at the teachings which encourage us to uplift ourselves: choose love over guilt before reacting. Continue reading

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